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JOB CORPS: COULD THIS BE THE ANSWER FOR YOUR CHILD?

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW  TO KEEP UP WITH THE KIDS
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TPR  What it Means to You    termination of parental rights is a long, difficult process.  
 
TEACHING FORGIVENESS TO CHILDREN: A FEW PRATICAL STEPS
 
 
 
BEYOND BRIGHT? MAYBE.   a look at Beyonders adopting teens
 
 
 
 
 
My daughter ran away from home when she was fourteen 
 
 
WHAT IF MY CHILD GETS IN TROUBLE WITH THE LAW?
What to expect from court, probation, etc....click here
 
BOWING TO THE VIDEO GODS:I am not really a video game virgin. I am, however, not the most experienced gamer on the block. *** TO READ MORE, CLICK HERE
 
 
MOTIVATING KIDS TO SUCCEED

Micah strolled into the house, tossed his backpack onto the floor and headed for the computer.

“Whoa,” I said. I was on the parent website this morning and saw your grades. You have two ‘D’s’ and an ‘F.’ I think you need to study. ”   CLICK HERE TO READ MORE ***

 
HELP! MY KID IS ODD! 

Daniel asks to play with his toy cars in his bedroom. Ardith tells him he can. At least it will get him out of her hair for a while. “But do not take them apart,” she cautions.

Within five minutes, the first set of tiny wheels hits the stair banister. A moment later, a metal car body bounces into the picture hung on the stair wall and sends it crashing to the floor.  TO READ MORE, CLICK HERE ***

 
THE VIEW FROM SIZE 2 SHOES
by Caryl Harvey
A CHILD'S VIEW OF FOSTER CARE
(With apologies to Dr. Seuss)

I do not like this place I see

This place where they have taken me. (To read the whole article, click here * )

 
                          
          HELPING TIMMY SLEEP  
 

There he goes again. Squeak, squeak, squeak.

I’m either going to have to figure out how to get that kid to sleep, or get him a quieter bed.     (to read more...click here*)           

 
BEYONDERS AND TRADITION  

Traditions are important.

After our son, Chad, was murdered, we started a tradition of lighting a candle on holidays. We lit it as soon as we woke and blowing it out was the last chore of the evening. (Click here to read more *)                 

 
 REACTIVE ATTACHMENT  DISORDER

My friend Aggie called me a few months ago to confess she’d done something unthinkable: she’d slapped her son.  Not hard, really, but it got his attention.  (click here to read The rest of the article  *** )

 
 
 
   SCOUTING AND FOSTER CARE
Ryan* layers his shirts on Tuesdays. The outer shirt can be nearly anything; the inner shirt is his Scout uniform.  It’s a sacrifice, wearing two shirts. Sweat runs down his face when it’s hot, and his jacket fits too snugly to zip over two shirts when it’s cold. But he never loses his toothy grin. Tuesdays, pack 32 meets right after school. Ryan is the only Cub Scout in the fifth grade. click here to read more**
 
                                            
          EMO CULTURE

I got a call from my daughter the other day. It seems my granddaughter is in to Emo. Now, being a Beyonder, I immediately conjured up the image of that tweaky little comedian from the 60s and 70s—Emo Phillips, the one with the black pageboy haircut and the Salvation Army suit complete with bow tie?  Not even close.   (to read more, click here***)

 
                      KEEPING UP

THINGS TO DO WITH THE KIDS WHEN YOU DON’T HAVE ENERGY ENOUGH TO DO ANYTHING WITH THE KIDS AND YOU TRULY WISH THAT THEY ALL WOULD JUST LEAVE YOU ALONE  To read more, click here***

 

 
  INTERNET SAFETY FOR KIDS  
Internet sites like MySpace.com make it easy for kids to connect with other kids. They also make it easier for predators to connect with them.  But for tired Beyonders, the Internet provides a time of respite  (to read more, click here**)
 
                                     

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TEEN AGED CELL PHONES

Well, that isn't quite what I mean. of course, I mean cell phones used by teen agers.

I'm ag'in it.  to read more, click here  ***

  from:http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/diseases/facts/childrensdiseases.htm

 

Common childhood diseases
Reviewed by Dr John Pillinger, GP

Chickenpox

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Some diseases, such as chickenpox, give immunity for the rest of your life, which is why often only children get these diseases.
    Symptoms

    Red, quite itchy, spots or blisters are scattered over the entire body and the child has a moderate fever.

    Incubation period

    Between 10 to 20 days from being exposed to the infection and showing symptoms.

    Infectious period

    Chickenpox is contagious before the disease breaks out and may be so until the last spots have disappeared and the scabs or crusts have fallen off. The child should stay home until the crusts have fallen off and the blisters are no longer weeping.

Whooping cough

    Symptoms

    Whooping cough is characterised by long fits of coughing followed by wheezy breathing and possibly vomiting. Symptoms are typically worse at night.

    Treatment

    Fresh air is important. Because of the risk of vomiting, the child should be given small meals more often, instead of a few large ones.

    Incubation period

    Between 10 to 14 days from being exposed to the infection and showing symptoms.

    Infectious period

    The disease is especially contagious during the first week, while the child still has a trace of a cold. The infectiousness does, however, wear off in the following five to seven weeks. It is important to keep the child away from other children under the age of one year.

'Fifth' disease (erythema infectiosum)

    Symptoms

    The child has red specks on the cheeks, nose, arms, thighs and buttocks. These are often blurred which makes it look like the child has been slapped. For this reason, fifth disease is often known as 'slapped cheek' syndrome. It can last up to 14 days and rarely causes a fever. It is mostly seen in children between the ages of 4 and 12.

    Treatment

    It cannot be treated, but disappears by itself. It is usually quite a mild illness.

    Incubation period

    Two weeks between being exposed to the infection and showing symptoms.

    Infectious period

    Once the rash appears, the disease is no longer infectious.

    Complications

    Pregnant women should avoid being in contact with children with fifth disease as it may cause a miscarriage. Pregnant women with a child who contracts fifth disease should contact their doctor. The incubation period is a couple of weeks.

Three-day-fever (roseola infantum)

    Symptoms

    A child with three-day-fever has a high fever for three days and a pink rash covers their body. It is mostly seen in children under the age of three years.

    Treatment

    Undress the child to ensure they aren't too warm. Give the child fever reducing medication (such as paracetamol (eg Calpol)) to control their temperature and plenty of fluids to avoid dehydration.

    Incubation period

    Between 10 to 15 days from being exposed to the infection and showing symptoms.

    Infectiousness

    It is contagious during the whole period of the disease and up to two to three days after. Avoid contact with other children under three years of age during the whole period.

Hand, foot and mouth disease

    Symptoms

    The child has a large number of small spots and blisters, particularly in the mouth and on the feet and hands. The disease can cause a slight fever for a few days.

    Treatment

    As with most diseases causing a fever, it is important to make sure the child gets plenty to drink. If the ulcers in their mouth are severe it may help to mash up the child's food.

    Incubation period

    Two to three days between being exposed to the infection and showing symptoms.

    Infectious period

    The disease is contagious as long as blisters or spots are still present.

Scarlet fever

    Symptoms

    The child has a slight to moderate fever, a sore throat and a rash which is often located in their armpits or groin. The child's skin peels and they get a coarse, pink tongue - a condition known as strawberry tongue.

    Treatment

    Antibiotics are usually given for this disease. It is important to keep the child at home and avoid contact with other children.

    Incubation period

    Three to eight days between being exposed to the infection and showing symptoms.

    Infectiousness

    Scarlet fever is contagious for the first few days, but after three days of antibiotics the risk is almost gone.

Based on a text by Dr Carl J Brandt

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Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Susan B. Anthony believed that women deserve the same rights as men—the right to go to college, the right to own land, and the right to vote. Throughout their lives, they worked together to gather support through public speeches, parades, and newspaper articles. Many years later, their work and the work of hundreds of others led to the Nineteenth Amendment, granting American women the right to vote.

We collected ideas from kids all across the country, with their suggestions for the Kids Bill of Rights. We've posted some of the most popular answers below. Do you agree with this list? Try making your own list for the kids in your neighborhood, your school, or your town.

Kyle, Age 10
All children should be able to play any sports without worry about cost.

Caitlin, Age 11
Kids should have the right to protest if they are feeling unjustly treated by adults or other kids.

Sally, Age 11
I think all children should be able to go to college when they are at a proper age.

Kira, Age 11
I think kids should be able to vote in something they believe in.

Susanne, Age 8
Kids should have the right to go to bed whenever they want.

Sara, Age 10
Kids should have the right to wear what they want to wear to school but if they wear something that is see-through then they should wear something else.

Madison, Age 4
Kids have the right to tell grown-ups when something is upsetting them.

Elisha, Age 9
When your parents are getting a divorce you have the right to speak in court.

Katie, Age 9 and a half
Kids should have the right to vote on subjects taught in public schools.

Jessie, Age 8
I want a right to help the kids with no family. I want to find more homes for them.

Irina, Age 11
All special days or national holidays we have are celebrating grown-ups like Christopher Columbus. I think us kids should have our own day celebrating us. We could be in charge for once.

A GREAT SITE FOR ALL OF US PARENTS TO EXPLORE: 

  http://www.familiesonlinemagazine.com/index.html